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        <title>It&#39;s the thought that counts. NOT</title>   
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        <published>2009-12-23T20:01:51Z</published>
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        <p>So I had the best idea for Christmas this year. I decided to go to Shutterfly and create a photo book of Bella&#39;s first year and send it to all of the grandparents for Christmas. (I hope my parents aren&#39;t reading this as they have not gotten theirs yet). My line of thinking. It&#39;s easy, not too expensive, a little self obsessed but they will like it, who wouldn&#39;t want a coffee table book of their grandchild to show off when people came over. Boy was I wrong. On so many levels. First of all it was not easy. It took me eight solid hours to put that damn thing together. By the time I was done I was cursing the idea. However it looked good and I was happy with it. When it arrived I ogled over it. I am a picture freak. So we put together a disk with all of the pictures on it and a DVD with all of the video we had of Bella&#39;s first year and sent it out. Bryan&#39;s family cannot wait until Christmas to open presents so they have been calling to comment on the book when they received it. His grandparents called and raved about it and thanked us repeatedly. I gushed because I put so much work into it and I was happy that they loved it. </p>
<p>His dad called and said &quot;so we got our gift today and we had a question...why are there no pictures of Suzanne in it? </p>
<p>Jaw drop.......</p>
<p>First thought <em>&#39;Uuummmm... because the F*ing book is not about Susanne it was titled Bella&#39;s first year if you don&#39;t like it send it back and I will keep it at work where I will treasure it.</em>&#39; </p>
<p>Next thought &#39;<em>because you live in New Mexico and have seen her twice since she was born and it is a 25 page book that spans 12 months, 4 days of which were not significant enough to dedicate more than a page to</em>.&#39; (and I did document both trips they took down here I just did not happen to have a picture of Suzanne). </p>
<p>Actual answer nice and polite &quot;because I did not have a good picture of Suzanne. She was taking pictures at the same time that I was and therefore was not in the pictures that I had. 100% true but OMG why is it about her. </p>
<p>I would never in my life get a gift from someone and question it. I was dumb founded. Bryan on the other hand was laughing. Why? Because he totally called it. when I was done with the book he noticed that there were no pictures of Suzanne in it. We went back and looked through the pictures that we had and I did not want to use any of the ones that I had of her (approx two from bad angles with bad light). I said it&#39;s okay we put that she was here in the wording mentioned her by name (the stupid name she wanted to be called &#39;Grammy&#39;)&#160;I didn&#39;t leave her out. He told me flat out that they would ask about it. They would be upset. I told him he was wrong, it was a gift they would be thankful for it and cherish it. </p>
<p>I WAS WRONG. I know that it is small and petty but I am so irritated. It really makes me not want to anything for them ever ever ever again. </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>graduating from the terrible twos</title>   
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        <published>2009-12-23T04:24:49Z</published>
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        <p>I&#39;d heard from several people, even perfect strangers, that three
was actually worse than two. Maybe it&#39;s because I&#39;m in the thick of the
threes, but right now, the &quot;terrible twos&quot; look like a warm sunny day
at the park.</p>
<p>Do I really have another half a year left??</p>
<p>Ok, that might be a teensy bit on the extreme side, but right now it
seems like this hellish nightmare will never end. I feel like I&#39;m
always repeating myself (who&#39;s the broken record?) and even though my
little boy knows he&#39;s not supposed to do *insert fill in the blank
here*, he just can&#39;t seem to help himself. Add to that a side of open
defiance, a dish of kicking and screaming and a dash of you can&#39;t make
me, and it&#39;s a recipe for disaster.</p>
<p>We are working hard at being consistent and making sure we follow
through, but what seemed to work fine and be effective ... even two
weeks ago ... just is not cutting it anymore.</p>
<p>When we discovered we were pregnant, I signed up for the weekly pregnancy emails at <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/">babycenter.com</a>
and since they asked, I shared Stephan&#39;s information with them as well.
This means that I also get several emails about the rambunctious
toddler. Every once in a while something turns up useful, and
sometimes, even at just the right time.</p>
<p>Being that I&#39;m about ready to pull my hair out, Christmas is around
the corner, and I really do want to enjoy my last break before the
business hits and baby comes in the spring, I was thankful for this
series of articles on time-outs and toddler discipline. (I&#39;m a little
freaked that they are geared toward threes <em><strong>and</strong></em> fours, but eventually something&#39;s got to give, right?</p>
<ul><li><a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_time-outs-how-to-make-them-work-ages-3-to-4_65535.bc?scid=preschooler_20091222:3&amp;pe=2Uyl3si">Time-outs: How to make them work (ages 3-4)</a><br /></li><li><a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_what-to-do-when-time-outs-dont-work-ages-3-to-4_65539.bc?scid=preschooler_20091222:3&amp;pe=2Uyl3si">What to do when time-outs don&#39;t work (ages 3-4)</a><br /></li><li><a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_moving-beyond-threats-ages-3-to-4_65543.bc?scid=preschooler_20091222:3&amp;pe=2Uyl3si">Moving beyond threats (ages 3-4)</a><br /></li><li><a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_alternatives-to-threats-ages-3-to-4_72301.bc?scid=preschooler_20091222:3&amp;pe=2Uyl3si">Alternatives to threats (ages 3-4)</a><br /></li></ul>
<p>Each of these builds on the other and provides some great ideas and
strategies, and provided some small changes that will hopefully make a
HUGE impact.</p><p>My biggest issue is keeping my cool. I&#39;m already
frustrated and stressed about the whole situation and really will need
to work hard at keeping that out of the equation. No sense adding to
the drama. I&#39;m hopeful gaining some additional tips on discipline now
that he&#39;s changing things up a bit will make all the difference.</p><p>So here&#39;s to a better tomorrow!</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>wow</title>   
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        <published>2009-12-15T21:53:05Z</published>
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        <p>I&#39;ve not been good about keeping up with the group. I think it&#39;s been several months!</p>
<p>Went through the members list and deleted those whose intent seemed to be spam or advertising. Hopefully, I did not delete anyone in error.</p>
<p>I&#39;ll try and be a better group &quot;leader&quot; :)</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Present to me, myself, and I </title>   
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        <published>2009-12-10T16:08:49Z</published>
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        <p>So I have been drooling over the Canon Digital Rebel T1i for months and the digital Rebel in general for years. It was always so expensive and way out of my reach. My husband and I have noticed that they always have great deals on them around the holidays. The bad thing about that is we are usually even more strapped around the holidays, especially now with a kid.&#160; So I thought that the dream of my camera was gone forever and it would be the thing I pined after but could never have like a cabin in Aspen or a sail boat. (In my world they are pretty much in the same league of I will never be able to afford them) With every windfall we have gotten over the last few years he have ahd three set backs. It dosen&#39;t seem fair. This year I asked Bryan &quot;if I get a bonus can I keep it?&quot; He said that I had earned it I could keep it but I felt guilty becasue it could pay off some debt, send us on a vacation or do all kinds of things for the family. But I really really wanted my camera. </p>
<p>Last week Bryan called me at work and told me that Costco had a great deal on my camera with a telephoto lens and a 4G SD chip (for about 250 cheaper). We discussed weather I was sure I was getting a bonus. NO! was it worth it if we saved 250 to pay a small amount of interest on the credit card till February. (?) If I didn&#39;t get a bonus could we use our Tax rebate? Were we getting a tax rebate? (?) Then I had to go. I called him back a little later and said I couldn&#39;t resist I wanted it we should order it. His response &quot;I already did&quot; I knew there was&#160;a reason I loved him. He knows my responses better then I do sometimes. </p>
<p>So my camera arrived in the mail yesterday and I opened it as soon as I got home. Plugged in the battery and got it charging. When it was done I started playing.&#160; I was like&#160;a kid on Christmas. The camera is moer complex then I thought so I spent about an hour reading and then forced myself to go to bed as I had an early day today. But&#160; I can&#39;t wait to get home and play some more. I want to take some pictures of my little monkey and my hubby. (He was the first subject of teh first picture I took on it). So I would expect some posts about my new baby (my camera that is) coming soon. </p>

    
    
    
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        <title>Update </title>   
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        <p>So since my last post my daughter has had her birthday party.&#160; That was awsome. We had a lot of fun and the little one was spoiled rotten from the whole family. Pictures are below. </p>
<p>I have had a hell of a two weeks since. We had Thanksgiving whichwas great. We saw lots of family and miss Bella had a reason to wear her purple dress from her birthday photos again. I got up and did black friday shopping and was at Target at 5:20am to get 700 thread count sheets for $30 a set, a four wheeler for little miss and some other nicknacks. I have almost finished my christmas shopping. I am so glad.&#160; We also got our tree up and Bryan put up all the outside lights.&#160;&#160;I really do love Christmas. </p>
<p>Bella started day care last week.&#160; She seems to be doing really well with it. She is very lovey with the kids and the teachers and eats and naps well. She bumped her head and had a nice goose agg her very first day. That made my heart melt.....Not. But overall I think that we picked a good place. That is until she came home Friday with that first cold that killed our entire weekend. The poor thing could not sleep very well because she was so stuffed up which means that Bryan and I did not sleep well. At the very least she still ate and drink well.&#160; The kid likes her food. But she is still so pitiful.&#160; I am going to try and get out early today and go get her so that she takes a good afternoon nap and maybe mommy can too. </p>
<p>To top off the weekend the new desktop pc that I bought Bryan for his birthday in June crapped out on us just as I was putting the final touches on the letter that we were going to send out with the Christmas cards. We were hit with the blue screen of&#160;death and that was all she wrote. I decided after throwing a fit that I was not rewriting the damn letter. Bryan worked on getting the old computer up and running most of the weekend. But WTF 6 months. It turned out to be the processer which is covered under the warenty but we still have to send it off and it usually takes 6 weeks to get back. Who in todays socitey can go 6 weeks without the internet? I am just very annoyed. Oh well. Maybe we will win the lottery and it won&#39;t seem so impotrant. </p>
<p>I bet all of you can guess my frame of mind today? How many people think that I am skipping up and down the halls? </p>
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<p>Suckers? </p>
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        <title>Beyond Words...</title>   
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        <p>Vida is about a week away from turning 20 months!&#160; Her language development continues to impress me.&#160; I know, every mother has a super baby.&#160; Well here&#39;s some proof:</p><p><u><span style="font-size: 1.25em;">She can say some 3 word sentences, here are some examples:</span></u></p><p><strong>1.</strong><span style="color: #660000; font-size: 1.25em;"> I see you!&#160;</span><span style="color: #333333"> <span style="color: #000000">If you&#39;re playing hide and seek and she spots you</span></span><span style="color: #000000">.</span><span style="color: #660000"><br /><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-size: 1.25em;">2. <span style="color: #660000; font-size: 1em;">We&#39;re home!</span><span style="color: #660000">&#160;</span> <span style="font-size: 0.8em;">As we drive into our alley and pull up to our place.</span><br />3. <span style="color: #660000">There it is!&#160;</span> <span style="font-size: 0.8em;">When she has located something we asked for.</span><span style="color: #660000"><br /><span style="color: #333333"><u><span style="font-size: 1.25em;"><br /></span><span style="font-size: 1em;">She has memorized two songs and sings them on her own.</span></u></span></p><p><span style="color: #333333">1. <span style="color: #660000">The Wheels on the Bus..</span>. <span style="font-size: 0.8em;">(My mom just loves this one.)</span><br /><span style="font-size: 0.8em;">This one is not as easily understood until you hear her say, &#39;round and round&#39;.&#160; She sings it spontaneously not on command.</span><br />2 <span style="color: #660000">Happy Birthday!</span> <span style="font-size: 0.8em;">(Every gathering with multiple people and candles in sight is &#39;Happy Birthday&#39; time.)</span><br /><span style="font-size: 0.8em;">Take Thanksgiving for example: At the table were centerpieces with orange tapers.&#160; She was so excited and began to sing<span style="color: #660000; font-size: 1.25em;"> &quot;Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to Vida.&#160; Blow! Blow!</span></span><span style="color: #660000; font-size: 1.25em;">&quot;</span><span style="color: #660000"><br /><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-size: 0.8em;">Vida has a cousin that&#39;s 6 weeks older than her and his mom said he only knew 3 words and simply grunts to have his needs met.<span style="color: #660000"><br /><span style="color: #333333">3. She&#39;s working on some Mother Goose Nursery rhymes, I think she has them but doesn&#39;t sing them all the way through on her own.&#160; Favorites include: <span style="color: #660000">Twinkle Twinkle Little Star</span> (95% memorized), <span style="color: #660000">Row, Row, Row Your Boat </span>and <span style="color: #660000">Pat a Cake</span> (85% memorized).</span></p></span><p><span style="font-size: 1.25em;">&#160;</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #333333"><span style="font-size: 1.25em;"><u>She asks to have books read to her one after the other.</u>&#160;</span> <br />I notice this most during the bed time routine: we put the pajamas on, bring the bottle, she inhales it, and says, &#39;book&#39;.&#160; We read one, two, and sometimes three or four books.&#160; I am trying to decipher if she has already started to use it as a stall for bedtime or simply enjoys reading for pleasure. There are days where she&#39;ll get in a book worm mood in the middle of the day and want to read.&#160; <br />There&#39;s one book, she can &#39;read&#39; on her own: <br /></span></span>
    
    
    





        






    
    
    





        






    
    
    





        






    
    
    





        






    
    
    





        





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<br /><span style="color: #660000"><span style="color: #333333"><br />On each page there&#39;s a different doll with a feature that is not &#39;right&#39;.&#160; Example: &#39;That&#39;s not my dolly!&#160; Her shoes are too bumpy!&#39;&#160; The shoes are textured for touch.&#160; As Vida flips through it, you can hear the intonation that I use as I read to her.&#160; I may have mentioned this before because she caught me by surprise about two months ago when I overheard her.&#160; I am fascinated though because it reminds of when I ask kids to read aloud with an animated voice and to use the punctuation marks.&#160; Some kids still sound monotone or their attempts are strained.&#160; Reading with intonation can only be learned through modeling.</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 1.5625em;"><u><span style="color: #333333">She engages in storytelling</span></u></span>:<br /><span style="color: #333333">There are 3 incidents she re-lives when something trigger her memory, usually an object or keyword.</p><p>1. <u>The parakeet incident:</u> While Pablo let the birds spread their wings, they scrambled to the top of the back door when Vida approached.&#160; One of them flew away back to the cage as Vida began to move the door.&#160; The more docile, tame one, stayed and had a toe smashed in the door frame.&#160; With a horrible shriek, Vida let go and ran to the other side of the kitchen, she was traumatized.&#160; Her face flush and on the verge of tears from the horrible squaking.&#160; Pablo was washing the dishes (awesome Husband, I know) and I came in to check out the commotion.&#160; The bird is now inside its cage and bleeding.&#160; I attend to Vida and reassure her, Pablo attends to the bird, quickly Googling first aid.&#160; Pablo was leaving the next morning for a surprise visit home for his mom&#39;s birthday.&#160; I took the bird in for a check up (I didn&#39;t think it was necessary but these $4 parakeets are his friends).&#160; $100 later (an antibiotic and vitamin shot), granted both parakeets had their nails trimmed, he&#39;s fine.&#160; Every now and then, Vida will comment:</p><p><span style="color: #660000; font-size: 1.25em;">Bird, Door, Sorry</span><span style="color: #660000"></p><p>Sorry...<span style="color: #333333">was picked up at daycare.&#160; If she walks by an object and bumps into it, she tells the it, &#39;sorry&#39;.&#160; Once when I picked her up from daycare, she said, &#39;Seesaw.&#160; Sorry.&#39;&#160; She motioned to her head.&#160; I am guessing some kid abruptly got off and she fell off.</p><p>2. Then there was the Turban squash incident.&#160; We selected a turban squash from the pumpkin patch.&#160; It was Pablo&#39;s idea, it could serve as Vida&#39;s own pumpkin, it&#39;s a cute size, and it looks like a toadstool.&#160; Below is an example:</span><br /></span></span></span>
    
    
    

    
    
    
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</p><p> One morning I was washing out her bottles and she wanted to tell the parakeets good morning.&#160; We have a routine where we tell them &#39;good morning&#39; and pull of the towel that covers them.&#160; Well the turban squash was sitting on top of the cage and came down with just a couple of gentle tugs.&#160; A &#39;foot&#39; of the squash landed square on the front right corner of Via&#39;s head and knocked her to her butt.&#160; It was definitely a slow motion reaction on my part as it unfolded.&#160; She summarizes the incident as <span style="color: #660000"><span style="font-size: 1.25em;">Pumpkin!&#160; Burdies!&#160; Sorry!&#160; <span style="font-size: 0.8em;">As she pats the part of her forehead that was hit.&#160; :-(</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #333333">I don&#39;t want to end on a sad note like that.&#160; She has incredible resiliency and spunk.&#160; It&#39;s hilarious to watch her find tons of amusement in the most basic experiences, like going up and down the back steps or her <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Little-Tikes-Endless-Adventures-Slide/dp/B001GQA7A0/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;s=toys-and-games&amp;qid=1260164387&amp;sr=8-2">Little Tikes slide </a>in our living room.&#160; The role playing is expanding.&#160; She places her stuff animals on chairs and spins them &#39;round and &#39;round.&#160; She reads with them in her <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Ryans-Room-Mambo-Clubhouse-Tunnels/dp/B002OSU2VS/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=toys-and-games&amp;qid=1260164476&amp;sr=1-1">house</a>.</span></span>&#160; <span style="color: #333333"></p><p>This weekend a new element of entertainment was introduced...Play dough!&#160; I have small jars (the party favor ones) in 4 different colors.&#160; She loves them all.&#160; Daddy has a good time too.&#160; He makes her cake, strawberries, and bananas.&#160; She likes using tools with it, like a small roller, protractor, and the cases themselves.&#160; Beginning in January, she will start attending <a href="http://www.musictogether.com/">Music Togethe</a>r classes.&#160; I am saving the details of our first demo class for another post.&#160; The program is simply amazing!&#160; We&#39;re taking small steps to prep her for preschool, she could start as early as 4 months from now!&#160; Most likely, we&#39;re still 10 months away but it&#39;s good to present her with similar experiences.&#160; <br /></span> </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <p>Hello Vox buddies...</p>
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        <title>Happy Birthday Darling Daughter</title>   
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        <p>Dear Bella, </p>
<p>The last year has been a roller coaster.&#160; However it is a roller coaster I waited nine months in line to ride in a park I waited 24 years to enter. Let me tell you it was worth the wait. I have cherished every moment from the 4 am feedings to the temper tantrums to the first time you said mama and the first steps. You have changed my life in so many ways and made what&#160;was a wonderful match in your father and I, an ideal combination in you. You are beautiful. When you smile it lights up the room. I never thought that I could always have a thought in the back of my head that tempered&#160;every other thought. That thought is of you. I am constantly wondering what you are doing, if you have eaten, napped, learned anything new. I wonder sometimes if you will have grown so much while I am at work that I won&#39;t recognize you when I go to pick you up.&#160;Then I remember that I would know you anywhere. I could pick you out of a crowed if I hadn&#39;t seen you for a hundred years.&#160;You are part of me and you always will be.&#160; </p>
<p>One year ago at this hour I had not yet held you in my arms.&#160; Your father and I were impatiently waiting for your arrival which was at 2:30 PM. We were wondering what you would look like, how you would act, weather you would be healthy. You looked perfect, you acted like an angel, barely making a noise for days and knock on wood you have always been healthy. When they put you in my arms a weight settled on my shoulders.&#160;But it was a weight that belonged, it seemed as if I had been built to carry that weight. It stabilized me, and gave me a new center of gravity...YOU. You were the new center of my world. Not just my world but your fathers as well. Today you are a mama&#39;s girl one day you will be a daddy&#39;s girl. And why not? No one on this earth loves you more then your dad except maybe me. Every parent feels that they love their&#160;child more than any other parent loves their child.&#160; I am sure the same will be true for you one day. But until then know that you have blessed our world and we love you from the bottom of our hearts. Happy birthday beautiful. </p>
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        <title>The count down begins </title>   
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        <published>2009-11-10T15:52:00Z</published>
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<p>Seven days, seven days until I no longer have a &quot;monther&quot; I have a &quot;yearer&quot;. Seven days till I can say I have a one year old. Bryan has been saying it for weeks but I just cant bring myself to do it.&#160; I am not making her any older then she is.&#160; i got my baby center email yesterday that said she was 11 months week four; I wanted to cry. </p>
<p>Bryan and I are going to look at day cares tomorrow.&#160; We have had a sweet set up of family watching Bella the last 10 months or so. But sadly my sister in law and brother have decided to move to Oregon to be closer to her family so my familial loop has flown the coop. I am nervous.&#160; I have a list of questions in my head and I am starting to write some down so that I can take them with me.&#160; Is there a question that is absolutely imperative that I ask? Anything that maybe someone didn&#39;t think to ask and then regretted it?&#160; I have been to a few sites that give you lists of questions to ask but....is there ONE that really needs to be asked above all?&#160; Can anyone who has been through this help me? </p>
<p>I have sent all of the invitations out for Bella&#39;s party.&#160; We were going to keep it small just family but I got gung hoe because I had all of these picture cards and I wanted everyone to see how cute and big she is getting so I sent them to my &quot;whole&quot; family.&#160; I have gotten a ton of RSVP&#39;s and I have a small house in November.&#160; It is going to get crowded.&#160;24 adults and 6&#160;kids in a 1000 square foot house... yikes!&#160;We are doing it at 2:00pm so we are just doing snacks and cake and punch.&#160; We want to keep it short so that Bella doesn&#39;t get too over stimulated. It is ironic. I don&#39;t want her to be one but I am so excited to see her eat her cake and open her presents that the day just can&#39;t come fast enough for me, yet it can&#39;t come slow enough either.&#160;&#160;I cannot believe that it has been almost a year since the first day I held her in my arms. okay time to stop before the water works start. </p>
<p>I cannot believe how grown up she is getting. We were told that she is in about the 85th percentile for speech and understanding (by my biased mother in law who is a speech pathologist). she walks everywhere. She gets braver and braver everyday.&#160; Last night we took her to the gym day care while we worked out and she just walked everywhere the day care attendant had to chase her down a few times.&#160; She talks back and has attitude already.&#160; If you interrupt her when she is concentrating and say her name she will say &quot;what&quot; and give you that you made me loose my train of thought look. I just love watching her everyday.&#160; A whole year cannot have gone by already.&#160; I just met her it seems like yesterday.&#160; Well I guess what they say is true time flys when your having fun. </p>
<p>Here is one year pictures. I love the one of her in teh roses. </p>
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        <title>Developmental Updates</title>   
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        <p>So our main concern right now is that Connor doesn&#39;t speak in sentences yet (He&#39;s 25 months).&#160;&#160;&#160; He speaks a few words here and there and understands simple instructions from us.&#160; As a parent, it&#39;s hard not to compare your child to similar-aged children.&#160; So he had this audiologist appointment yesterday and his hearing is fine---within normal range.&#160; We were told to come back in 6-12 months to do a more thorough hearing test.&#160; She said that he&#39;s probably just developing in his own time.&#160; I&#39;m really not THAT worried but when I hear stories about his much younger cousin (She&#39;s 15 months) kinda speaking already, how can I not think about it?&#160; Anyway, there could be a lot of reasons why this could be.&#160; </p><ul><li>Most of the kids I know that talk early are girls.&#160; I&#39;ve actually encountered quite a few moms who had boys saying that their boys started speaking later but were totally fine as they got older.</li><li>Who watches the kids?&#160; Again, most kids I hear about have family members (either their own moms or grandparents) that watch them.&#160; This translates to them having more personal one on one time to develop conversations.&#160; Now, will this want me to quit my job?&#160; Probably not.&#160; It&#39;s just an obsevation.</li><li>Connor&#39;s just focusing on his physical skills for now.&#160; He really does follow instructions pretty well and says some words.&#160; Now that we&#39;ve had confirmation that his hearing&#39;s fine, there really shouldn&#39;t be any worries.</li></ul><p>I guess we&#39;ll see in a couple of months.&#160; We still try to read to him as much as we can and he recognizes pictures and can imitate some sounds.&#160; As long as he&#39;s healthy, I should be thankful no matter what.<br /> </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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